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2021年2月19日发(作者：如果有一件事是重要的)

励志英文演讲一：

The 10 habits that make you more attractive

The 10 habits that will make you more attractive and get people to like you. Most people think

that

being

attractive

is

all

about

being

good

looking.

Indeed,

some

people

are

blessed

with

natural good looks. They go through most of their lives benefitting from their pleasing physical

appearance. But attraction has to do with much more than your face, body, hair or clothes. Here

are

10

habits

that

you

can

start

implementing

into

your

daily

life

that

will

make

you

instantly

more attractive, regardless of your physical appearance!

养成这十个习 惯，让你更有吸引力，让你更受欢迎！大多数人认为，有吸引力，意味着长得

好看。

确实，有一部分人生来就长得好看，在人生中，他们因为好看的外表而获得了不少好

处。但是，吸引力不仅仅跟面容、身材、发型或者衣着有关。接下来，让我们一起看看这

10

个习惯，无论你的外貌如何，如果你能在日常生活中养成这些习惯， 你就很快能让自己

变得更有吸引力。

Number

1:

Keep

your

words

positive.

You

can

complain

all

you

want

about

things,

people

or

circumstances.

But

at

the

end

of

the

day,

you're

not

helping

yourself

grow.

And

you

certainly

don't make others like you any better! You see, people like to be around others who make them

feel good. But, how do you do just that? Well, you can start by using positive words, and offering

a lot of praise. Receiving that kind of energy makes others feel good, and they will naturally like

you more.

第一，说积极 的话。你可以尽情抱怨，抱怨事情，抱怨他人，抱怨环境。但是，这终究不会

让你成长， 别人也会对你产生反感。你要知道，人们喜欢和那些令他们感到舒服的人相处。

但是，< /p>

你怎样才能让他们感到舒服呢？事实上，

你可以尝试开始说一些积 极的话，

多赞美他

人。别人会从你的话语中获得能量，这让他们 感觉良好，自然而然地，他们就会更喜欢你。

Number 2: Be curious. The only way to make other people curious about you is by being curious

yourself. Learn how things work. Analyze why people behave the way they do, and try to figure

out what makes them tick. Read some interesting books, and find out what's happening in the

world around you. When you have a lot more to say, people instinctively think you're smart and

fascinating.

第二， 保持好奇心。如果你要让别人对你有好奇心，那么你只能自己先做个有好奇心的人。

了解 更多知识，

分析一下人们的行为，尝试想一想什么会让人们不快。

读一些有趣的书，了

解你周围的世界正在发生什么。如果你能说会道，那么人们自然会 认为你很聪明，很迷人。

Number

3:

Smile

more.

There's

a

reason

why

happy

and

charming

people

tend

to

have

more

friends and admirers. Happiness is considered the most attractive expression! People are drawn

to

positive

emotions,

and

a

smile

conveys

friendliness

and

openness.

So,

remember

to

smile

often!

第三，多笑笑。那些 快乐的人，很有吸引力的人，总是拥有更多朋友，更多崇拜者，这是自

然而然的事。快乐 是最迷人的表情！

人们会被积极的人吸引，

笑容能够传递友善和 包容。所

以，请记得多笑一笑！

Number

4:

Surprise

people.

When

you

tell

someone

what

you're

going

to

do

for

them,

they

automatically

expect

you

to

deliver.

Instead,

surprise

them

from

time

to

time!

It's

much

more

memorable and impactful than doing what you've already promised. It's not the gift alone that

will brighten their day, but the thought you put into the nice gesture!

第四，

为人们制 造惊喜。

如果你告诉别人你要为他们做什么，

那么他们自然会期 待你去做这

件事。试试另一种做法，那就是，不时给人们制造惊喜。比起你的说到做到而 言，人们对小

惊喜的印象更加深刻。让人们开心的，不仅是惊喜本身，而是你在这上面花 的心思。

Number 5: Say thank you. These two simple words, though overused at times, can make a world

of a difference in someone's day. All it takes is a couple of seconds to think about and appreciate

what you are given. Even if it's something small, like someone holding the door open for you,

always remember to say thanks!

第五，

说谢谢。< /p>

虽然我们总在说谢谢，但是这简简单单的两个字能改变别人的一天。你只需

要花几秒钟思考一下，感激别人的给予。

即使这只是一件小事，比如别人帮你把 住门口，请

记得要经常说谢谢。

Number 6: Remain calm. We can all agree that it's an unpleasant sight to see someone screaming

or lashing out in a destructive way. And sometimes we just can't help but lash back! Well, don't

do that. Before you snap, take a minute and think about the whole situation. It's best to stay calm

and just talk it out. By doing this, you'll be able to understand others much better, and as a result,

you will establish closer connections to them.

第六，保持冷静。我们都知道，如果看到一个人大喊大叫，或者大发脾气，这可不是什么令

人愉快的事。有时候，我们又无法控制自己的怒火。但，请一定要控制住自己。在你发怒之

< br>前，停下来思考一下现状。最好能够保持冷静，平和地谈论这件事。这样做，你能够进一步

了解他人，那么你就能减少彼此之间的距离。

Number 7: Forgive and forget. We all have been hurt and disappointed at some point in our lives.

And

while

letting

go

is

a

difficult

thing

to

do,

it

is

extremely

important.

Anger,

jealousy,

and

holding

grudges

are

ugly

habits.

They

only

cultivate

negativity

and

bring

you

down.

Forgiving

someone for having wronged you will not only make you a better person in their eyes, but you

will come across as a mature and sensible person.

第七，学会原谅，学会 忘记。在人生中，我们都曾经被伤害，都曾经感到失望。尽管我们很

难做到释然，但是学 会放手是很重要的。怒火，嫉妒，怨恨，这些都是很丑陋的习惯。他们

只会让你变得越来 越消极，拖你后腿。原谅一个冤枉你的人，这样，在他们眼中，你会变成

一个更好的人， 而且你会给他们留下一个成熟、理性的印象。

Number

8:

Strike

up

a

conversation.

Most

of

us

feel

uncomfortable

when

we're

out

of

our

comfort zone, and away from familiar groups of people. But people who take the initiative and

introduce themselves to others are the types who are completely comfortable in their own skin

–

a trait that's highly attractive! So, break out of your comfort zone and strike up a conversation

with someone you don't know! You'll instantly surprise them, and you might just walk away with

greater confidence!

第八，

主动和他人对话。

当我们走出舒适区、

远离我们熟悉的人时，

大部分人会感到不自在。

但是，那些主动向他人介绍自己的人，正是那种自我感觉良好的人，这个品质很能吸引人。

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